I specificly like old women with sharp wits, tongues and memories.
We younger women guard our words. We don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, or give anyone a poor impression of ourselves, our husbands, our children. We often choose to say nothing at all, for the sake of peace and polite society.
At some point, women stop caring so much about what other people think. They decide that if they have something to say, they'd darn well better say it.
That's when they get interesting. I love to hear the voices of experience.
I look forward to someday being old enough to be free with my words, too. When my work is done, my children are raised and my life has spoken for itself, I won't care either what anyone thinks of me. I'll say what I want and let my listeners decide if I'm just a crazy old bat or wise woman with words worth hearing.
I am thankful to have so many wise women in my life with words worth hearing. Thank you, ladies, for being brave enough to share them with me.
Very very true!
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